The Most Common BDSM Toys for Beginners
BDSM is one of the most fun activities in the world of sexual exploration. BDSM is a term that covers a large number of activities. For example, anything that involves power play, such as domination and submission, falls into the category of BDSM. If you haven't participated in BDSM play before, BDSM can be pretty intimidating.
One of the biggest questions people ask when they are interested in BDSM is what toys they need. BDSM doesn't require you to have any toys but there are plenty of interesting things that you can do when you add toys to the play. What toys do you add to the play? We are going to take a look at some of the most common BDSM toys that you can get.
Restraints
Restraints are some of the most common BDSM toys out there. Being tied down or otherwise restrained can help to heighten the senses. When it comes to BDSM there is a wide variety of restraints that are used by practitioners. The restraints you choose all depends on you and your partner's personal preferences. Here are the most popular restraints:
- Ropes
- Handcuffs
- Bondage Tape
It isn't uncommon for people to start improvising restraints too. Some people improvise with daily supplies such as regular tape and belts. When picking restraints it is important to keep safety in mind. Improvised and cheap restraints can be dangerous. We always recommend using quality restraints from a reputable company.
Impact Toys
Impact toys are one of the most common toys to be connected with the world of BDSM. A lot of people who think of BDSM think of whipping and paddling. Despite the fact that this is a stereotype, both are quite common in BDSM play. Whips come in a variety of different styles, lengths, and offer different features. Paddles are less common than whips but there are also a few options there for you to choose from.
Impact play is another area where safety is crucial. You want to get a sturdy toy that isn't going to break. These toys are used to smack an ass or back, they need to be prepared to take that impact. Splinters or sharp ends from a broken impact toy can do some damage.
Sensory Deprivation Toys
When you remove one or more senses the rest of the senses get enhanced. For example, if you take away one sense, it is common for touch to be enhanced. To enhance a BDSM encounter many people choose to engage in sensory deprivation. Removing senses can happen in a number of ways but the most common sensory deprivation toy is the blindfold.
You can get blindfolds that are specifically made for BDSM scenes or you can use something that you have at home. Ties, scarves, and similar objects can work well. To get the most out of the experience make sure that you can cover the eyes completely with whatever you use.
Removing hearing with earplugs isn't uncommon. More common than that though is gags. Gags remove the ability to talk which is sensory adjacent. With gags added to the play you can have a lot of interesting fun. Just remember to keep two things in mind when usings in mind when using gags:
1) Make sure the person can always breathe
2) Never go beyond someone's limits just because someone is gagged
Dongs, Dildos, and Plugs
Toys that are used for pleasure via insertion are most commonly associated with women but they can be used for everyone. Dongs, dildos, and other plugs are quite common when it comes to BDSM. You can use them in the moment to tease and enhance sexual play. What toy you pick from the trio listed above depends on the use and the personal preference.
Not only can these toys be used in the moment but plugs and similar devices can be used in between play too. Anal plugs and other such toys can be used when out and about in public as they don't show. Every time you move though, your body will be stimulated and you will be reminded of your BDSM play. This kind of play isn't for everyone but it can be quite enjoyable.
These are just some of the most common BDSM toys out there. Many different toys and objects can be brought into the world of BDSM. No matter what toy you choose to start with, we highly recommend branching out and trying new things. More toys can bring more scenes and new experiences into your sex life to spice it up.