A Beginner's Guide - Tips for Bondage Relationship
If you're off to a Bondage Date and don't know how to begin then you're not alone. Many people feel a certain discomfort while starting off as a beginner. However, safety is the preliminary thing and must be kept in mind while advancing to a whole new world. Knowing yourself and your partner is going to help you incredibly. Let's see what other tips you can follow as a beginner!
1. Self Awareness is the Key
It's important to do your research about the things that you're getting yourself into. You should explore the ideas that you like and don't like. Self-awareness will help you go a long way. It's the matter of discovering your own self and communicating your boundaries with your partner. The whole procedure might seem a bit complicated for you, but reading about it will help you. Try to read articles and watch online tutorials to educate yourself about the techniques that you want to try.
2. Don't trust everyone
It might be the case that you have your own Set of ideals and whims, but your partner doesn't like the idea of it. Therefore, when it comes to bondage relationships, it's always important to find a person who is trustworthy. You should find yourself a partner that is trustworthy and is also respectful of your boundaries. Finding the right partner for yourself is critical. Your partner must be able to know about your needs and desires. An empathetic and understanding partner will not only help you fulfill your ideas but will also not make you feel uncomfortable at all. Try to know if your partner is on board with you or not. If your partner shares different ideas or doesn't support your ideas, then you will know that he/ she's not the right one for you.
3. Create a list
Creating a list of ideas to share with your partner will always be helpful. This is crucial to know what's off limits for your partner. Similarly, if something is a hard limit for you or is simply not interesting for you, then you can tell your partner right away. You should be open with your partner about what you plan on doing. Your partner must be on the same page as you.
Try to sit down your partner and discuss the possibilities with them. If your partner doesn't like any idea, ask him/her to point it out then and there. This will help you both to check the list off and narrow down the options. Similarly you partner should also ask you about the ideas that you are comfortable with. If you are not okay with any idea that your partner proposes, then both of you can skip that step. It's always important to know the limits of your partner so that the date doesn't end in ruins.
4. Socialize
Join the relevant social BDSM sites to meet other people who share the imagination like yours. Its might be a bit hard for you to step out of your comfort zone but there are several websites on the Internet that can indicate the nearby social events happening. Meeting up with new people and showing up in a social gathering is going to help your find other people who are interested in bondage dating. Networking with new people is going to ease up the process for you for sure.
5. Stop stressing out
Thinking too much about it is only going to make you more stressed out and less confident. Try to meet your partner with a higher confidence level. Boost your confidence by making yourself more aware about it. Do not overthink it and you're good to go!