Fifty Shades Of Grey - The World of BDSM
An interesting relationship between people is called the BDSM. This is epitomized in the Fifty Shades of Grey, an erotic romance novel by British author E. L. James that was later made into a movie of the same title. In the first installment of the trilogy, you follow the relationship between a young college graduate and a young sexual business magnate. Film exhibits many explicitly erotic scenes featuring elements of BDSM practices and its subsets.
What does BDSM stand for?
The term is an acronym that stands for Bondage, Domination, Submission, Sadism and Masochism. However today, it is given an added meaning as being a type of lifestyle or an indication of beliefs that are widely shared.
Within the fifty shades of grey relationship, you will be experiencing its subsets:
Bondage
It is the practice of the mutual agreement between partners that involves binding, restraining or tying partner to awaken the aesthetic, erotic or somatosensory stimulation. For the purpose, bondage tape, cuffs, rope, self-adhering bandage, or other physical restraints may be used.
Dominance\submission
When an open person submits to another in an erotic episode or lifestyle, this set of behavior, customs, and rituals is also called D/s. No physical contact is needed for for D/s can be conducted anonymously over the telephone, email, or other messaging systems. From the dominant or dominated, pleasure or erotic enjoyment is derived. The dominants or Doms (male) or Dommes (female) take on the superior positions; while submissives or subs (male or female) take the lower positions.
Sadism
In this behavior type, a person feels pleasure through hurting other people while inflicting physical or mental sufferings.
Masochism
Sexual gratification is derived from being subjected to physical pain or humiliation to oneself or from another person.
To Correctly Deal With
1. According to researchers, you likely fall between 2% to 62% of practitioners.
2. You are not sick. When a BDSM practitioners is compared to non-BDSM-practitioners on major personality traits, showed that BDSM practitioners have higher levels of sociability, uprightness, receptiveness to experience, and subjective wellness; as well as lower levels of anxiety and sensitivity to rejection.
3. Your activities are categorized to physical restriction as bondage, the use of chains and handcuffs; pain administration as applying clothes pin on the skin, caning, and spanking; humiliation as gags and verbal humiliation; and the last a category belongs to sexual behavior.
4. You are strongly affected by BDSM people. Bottom is the person who is restraint & bound, being stimulated and/or made to follow orders. Top persons provide the stimulation and give the orders or structures. Both bottoms and tops experiences closeness in relationship closeness and decreasing psychological stress prior to and after their scenes.
BDSM practitioners
AS a BDSM practitioner, you experience reduction of stress, increase intimacy and the altered pleasurable states of consciousness. During sex life has no stress as you feel the endorphin exhilaration accompanied by higher feelings of control and accomplishment. More and more people are experiencing its benefit. However, according to research, activities by themselves are not the source of calm and stress relief; rather it is the individual's personalities of individuals that practices BDSM relationship.
BDSM relationship is positive; however, it is beyond the sexual act; but a lifelong, natural, inborn sexual identity similar to the straight people, bi's, gays or lesbians. In other words, it is the behavior and identity that give meaning and fulfillment for every practitioner.